for anyone who is putting the cart before the horse: [link]
read it. the whole thing.
the quote that brought me here from tumblr: When I was 22, I thought that I deserved success just because I wanted it, and not because I'd actually earned it.
she's right, you know.
u mad? don't be mad at me or her. be mad at yourself for being an entitled brat.
(read the comments at that article, too. you're not alone. no one walks alone on a planet of seven billion. and if you leave defensive bullshit here... well... just don't. it's still my birthday for another hour and a half and i had a long fucking day)
Good stuff from ~witwitch